Wow, that's a new one. I thought, like you said, sex was all about the senses. I'm so ignorant about ADHD that only yesterday (not even kidding) did I learn about the hyperfocus part. I apparently have "traits of obsessive-compulsive personality disorder", so I too can get hyperfocused at times, on certain tasks (usually writing-related). I didn't know people with ADHD also get hyperfocused. But I imagine it's even worse for you, then, since you have full-blown ADHD.